Let’s Talk About It: If you are out here faking orgasms, you are faking your life. Point blank, period. And before you clutch your pearls, understand that this is not just about sex. It is about energy, alignment, and how the lies you tell in the bedroom ripple into every other area of your life—including your ability to manifest the things you say you want.
Orgasms and Manifestation: The Science and Spirituality
Manifestation is about energy. The universe responds to vibration, not words. And guess what? Your sexual energy is one of the most powerful vibrations you have. In fact, studies show that orgasm releases a surge of neurochemicals—dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins—that elevate mood, increase confidence, and enhance creative thinking (Journal of Sexual Medicine, 2016). That post-orgasm glow? That is literal high-frequency energy radiating from your body.
When you fake an orgasm, you are training your mind and body to accept inauthenticity. You are reinforcing the belief that “good enough” is okay, that “almost there” is acceptable, and that “settling” is just part of life. Now tell me—how are you supposed to manifest real abundance, deep love, and divine purpose when you cannot even claim real pleasure?
What Happens When You Fake It?
- You Teach Your Body to Betray Itself
Your body is an instrument of divine intelligence. When you fake pleasure, you are overriding your body’s truth with a lie. According to research, repeated inauthentic sexual responses create a disconnect between mind and body, leading to decreased arousal and satisfaction over time (Archives of Sexual Behavior, 2018). This means that not only are you missing out on pleasure, but you are also dulling your ability to feel at all. And if you cannot fully feel in the bedroom, you are likely not fully feeling in other areas of your life either. - You Reinforce a Scarcity Mindset
Faking orgasms is the sexual equivalent of accepting crumbs and calling it a feast. It is telling the universe, “I do not believe I can have more, so I will settle for less.” And what happens when you settle? You keep attracting situations where you have to settle. Relationships that are just okay. Jobs that just pay the bills. Dreams that never fully materialize. The way you do one thing is the way you do everything. Stop settling. - You Block Your Sacral Chakra (aka Your Creative Powerhouse)
Your sacral chakra, located in your lower abdomen, governs both your sexual energy and your creative force. When blocked, it stifles your ability to create—whether that is new ideas, new opportunities, or a new, abundant reality. Sexual suppression and inauthenticity are directly linked to creative blocks and lack of motivation (International Journal of Yoga, 2020). If you have been feeling stuck, uninspired, or unable to bring your visions to life, you might want to look at how you are treating your own pleasure.
How to Reclaim Your Orgasm and Your Manifestation Power
- Commit to Radical Honesty
If it is not giving what it needs to give, say that. Your pleasure matters. Your truth matters. And guess what? Real partners want to please you. Stop protecting egos at the expense of your own fulfillment. - Practice Receiving
Many of us—especially women—have been conditioned to prioritize giving over receiving. This is not just a bedroom issue. It is a life issue. Start allowing yourself to receive: compliments, support, money, pleasure. The more you allow in, the more the universe sends. - Connect with Your Own Pleasure
Your orgasm is your responsibility. Take the time to explore what brings you pleasure outside of performance. Studies show that self-awareness in sexuality leads to higher self-esteem and overall life satisfaction (Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 2019). When you know what feels good to you, you will never accept less. - Use Your Orgasm as a Manifestation Tool
Orgasmic manifestation—also called sex magic—is a real thing. At the peak of pleasure, your brain enters a heightened state of consciousness, making it the perfect moment to set intentions. Next time you are about to climax, focus on what you desire. See it. Feel it. Call it in.
Final Word
If you are out here manifesting millions but faking orgasms, you are out of alignment. True abundance requires full embodiment—mind, body, and spirit. Own your pleasure. Speak your truth. Demand more. And watch how every area of your life starts to expand.
No more faking. Not in the bedroom. Not in life. You deserve the real thing.
